Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos

How to Speak up for Yourself in Tense Moments

Episode Notes

In this episode, Karen shares practical, real-world phrases and mindset shifts to help you hold your ground in conversations, redirect when needed, and communicate with calm confidence — without being confrontational or shutting others down.

You’ll learn how to protect your time, set boundaries gracefully, and stay grounded even when dealing with over-talkers, poor listeners, or conversations that go off the rails.

What You’ll Learn

• Why “Here’s what will work for me” is a powerful, confident phrase that moves conversations forward 
   
• How to redirect conversations gracefully without offending or over-explaining
   
• Simple ways to include others and avoid being dominated by one voice
   
• Why silence can be one of your strongest communication tools
   
• How to share a differing perspective without sounding argumentative
   
• The mindset shift behind choosing relationship over being right
   
• Why clarity is kindness — to yourself and to others
   
• How confident communication is about being clear, not loud
   

Key Phrases to Practice

• “Here’s what will work for me.”
   
• “Let’s change gears.”
   
• “I’d like to hear what others think.”
   
• “I see it differently.”
   
• “I have another perspective I’d like to share.”
   

Big Takeaway

Confidence isn’t about overpowering others — it’s about clarity, self-respect, and presence. You are allowed to take up space, set boundaries, and communicate your perspective with calm authority.

Coaching & Practice

These are skills that get stronger with practice. Inside Karen’s coaching and group programs, including The Powerhouse, leaders practice these exact conversations in a safe, supportive environment — because senior leaders rarely have space to rehearse real-life communication.

Final Reminder

You are worthy of taking up space simply because you exist.
Confidence isn’t being loud. Confidence is being clear.

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Some resources for you:

Project more confidence and credibility with my free tips: 9 Words to Avoid & What to Say Instead: Words to Avoid | Karen Laos

My book “Trust Your Own Voice”: https://karenlaos.com/book/

Connect with me:

Website: https://www.karenlaos.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenlaosofficial 

Episodes also available on YouTube:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEwQoTGdJX5eME0ccBKiKng/videos